When individuals aren’t consumed by financial worries or controlled by money, they gain the freedom to be creative and fully express their gifts. “Having enough” allows them to be present in their everyday lives. True wealth isn’t necessarily about being rich—it’s about living with integrity and generosity. Personal core values are essential in financial decisions, as they often represent the areas where the greatest challenges arise. Knowing one’s identity and principles is crucial.
Money has immense power—it can influence people and, at times, lead even good individuals to make choices that conflict with their true selves. History is filled with examples of people sacrificing their integrity for financial gain, but strong values act as a safeguard against such pitfalls.
A Lesson in Integrity
One of the most valuable lessons about money came to Pat Shea at the age of 10. While walking home from school, she spotted a $20 bill lying on the ground. Overcome with excitement, she couldn’t wait to share her discovery with her family. That evening at dinner, she proudly held up the bill and announced, “Look what I found today!”
However, her father’s response took her by surprise. He said, “After dinner, I want you to go up and down the street and ask our neighbors who lost their money.” Shocked and reluctant, Shea thought, “He’s kidding,” but she knew she had to follow his instruction.
After dinner, bundled up against the evening chill, she took the $20 bill and began knocking on doors in her neighborhood. One by one, the residents assured her they hadn’t lost the money. Finally, she arrived at Mrs. Mender’s home. When the woman saw the $20 bill, tears filled her eyes.
“Oh my goodness,” Mrs. Minder exclaimed, “I walked all the way to the grocery store, but when I got there, I realized I had lost my week’s money for food.” She hugged Shea tightly and handed her 50 cents as a token of gratitude.
As Shea walked home that evening, she felt richer than she ever would have with the $20 bill in her pocket. It wasn’t about the money—it was the joy of returning it to someone who truly needed it. When she gave the money back to Mrs. Minder, she felt so proud—especially in front of her dad and Mrs. Minder—that it was worth more than $20.
That day, Shea’s father taught her one of the most valuable lessons about money and integrity. It was a moment that stayed with her for the rest of her life, shaping her understanding of true wealth and the power of living by one’s values.
